seriously, cannot stand certain people at times... why do they have to keep whining? the choice of friends is very important. 近朱者赤，近墨者黑. do you want yourself to be filled with negativity? surround yourself with negative friends then. want to speak profanities? start being close to friends who do such.

we need to learn to let things go at times. no point harping on it and nurse the wounds too much. we will find it almost impossible to forgive, let alone forget and move on. ultimately, the person whom you are harming most is yourself. let go, and let God. if only people around the world would start embracing this mindset. pettiness will get one nowhere. P.s. Guys don't like that too!