I am amazed at how God disciples me through the words I say to people through Whatsapp.
A friend was asking me, "Eh, when's your turn (to receive the proposal ring/to get married)?"
My reply, "Life is not a race."
Let me explain. I used to want to get married ASAP. The more I hear about friends receiving their proposal rings, the more I would wonder when my turn would be, how much time I'm left with as the clock ticks away mercilessly. I would be anxious and jealous somewhat.
Now, I finally truly believe that it ain't about rushing into things. It's all about God's timing. Life is not a race. I shouldn't be comparing my life with others' because God simply has different plans for all of us! I know God still has many things He wants to accomplish through me before I end my singlehood life and proceed on marriage life. So so much more! Deeper, further, higher!
Also, I know that I'm not anywhere near ready for marriage. Marriage is more than just saying "I do!" and attending the wedding dinner in a pretty frock. There are so many other aspects involved!
I know this might sound unconvincing coming from someone who is currently dating.. But I really urge you (yes! you reading this post now!) to not rush into life's processes. If you are single, fulfil what God wants to do through you while you're single. If you're attached, do not detach yourself away from God. Instead, grow closer to Him and you'll realise your relationship with your significant other will improve too. Of course, do not rush into marriage. Use the time to serve God and prepare yourself for marriage.
Whee~
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